31 Days Of Gratitude


Debra Bazile

Debra is a natural hair blogger who loves traveling, eating cupcakes, and all things makeup.She is in the pursuit of turning her love for blogging into a full time career. She wants everyone to know that they are gorgeous and can have beautiful natural hair on a budget.



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“Gratitude turns what we have into enough.”

– Anonymous

31 Days of Gratitude was something that I felt led to do. It’s easy to take things for granted.

For instance, that breath you just took, I bet you probably didn’t even think twice about that.

What about when you reached for that water bottle, just to quench your thirst? I bet you didn’t have any concerns about it being clean or ever running out.

Not everyone is breathing.

Not everyone has access to clean drinking water.

No, I’m not trying to make you sad, but I am trying to shift your perspective to a stance of being grateful for even for the little things. Trust me.I’m talking to myself too.

Life isn’t always fair. I wish I could tell you that even your worse moments will someday be okay. But I can’t do that. I’d be lying to you and I want us to stay curlfriends. However, I can tell you that each day we get to choose. So, today I want us to choose joy. A huge part of being happy lies within our gratefulness.

Take a moment to find one thing to be grateful for and watch how your life changes.

For the next 31 days, I will be implementing a gratitude challenge and I would love for you to join me.

How do I join the challenge?

Each day we will post our gratitude via our Instagram stories. You can use the template I designed or create a snippet video to state what you are grateful for each day. If you DM me on Instagram, I can send you the template. I got you!

Also, be sure to tag @talkcurlytome in your daily gratitude post so that I can share them on my story.

Easy right? 

I’ll be keeping a log of my daily gratitude right here on my blog, in my journal, and via my Instagram stories.

“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”
 – Oprah Winfrey

Remember, it’s always good to look at what you do have instead of counting what you don’t have.  

The gratitude challenge begins right now with you and me!

Are you ready?

Let’s do this! 

#31DOGC #talkcurlytome

Today I Am Grateful For:

December 1, 2019: I am grateful that God woke me up this morning.

December 2, 2019: I am grateful for the incredible women who’ve decided to join me on this “31 Days of Gratitude” challenge. They have no idea how much they each mean to me.

December 3, 2019: I am grateful for my friend LaQuelle. She took the time out of her busy schedule to call and check on little ole me.

December 4, 2019: I’m thankful for my sister. On this day, God graced the world with her presence. No really, she is one of a kind. He knew that I would need someone to work out all the kinks of life, and help me walk through each day. I love you sissy!

December 5, 2019: Today I am grateful to know that there are still some good men in the world. I was freezing cold, and this gentleman offered to let me hold his jacket. He didn’t know me from a can of paint.

December 6, 2019: I am grateful for the quiet moments alone.

December 7, 2019: I am so grateful for the opportunity to spend time with my four nieces. I enjoy watching them grow.

December 8, 2019: Today I am thankful for the wisdom that God has given me.

December 9, 2019: Early morning calls to my grandpa. I really enjoy hearing him chuckle.

December 10, 2019: Thankful for the favor of God over my life.

December 11, 2019: COURAGE

December 12, 2019: I am grateful to have loving students. They’re always trying to do something to make me smile.

December 13, 2019: The moments I got to spend with my friend Alex. I’ll miss you forever.

December 14, 2019: A loving mommy and daddy.

December 15, 2019: Thank you God for making a way for me to see Jonathan McReynolds.

December 16, 2019: I’m thankful for each season of my life. The seasons of joy and the seasons that are filled with tears.

December 17, 2019: I am grateful for the endless laughs I get to share with my mom. At times we laugh so hard until our eyes begin to water.

December 18, 2019: Spending time with my nieces is a precious thing to me. Teaching them what it means to be a young lady in this day in age is so crucial. I am grateful that they still want to hang out with their auntie.

December 19, 2019: Grateful for the quiet moments to myself.

December 20, 2019: Thankful for my little brother and the opportunity to celebrate his life.

December 21, 2019: I am thankful for those friends that I don’t see often but they still show you, mad love, when you’re together.

December 22, 2019: The opportunity to share laughs with my daddy.

December 23, 2019: Lunch dates with my sister and my mom.

December 24, 2019: Taking time to let my inner child come out and play with my three-year-old niece.

December 25, 2019: I am grateful for Jesus Christ.

December 26, 2019: Warm hugs from my dad.

December 27, 2019: Being able to be vulnerable used to be one of the toughest things for me to do. At this point in my life, I’m realizing that it’s okay to not have it all together. Now, don’t get me wrong, you don’t want to stay a total mess. However, it’s okay not to be okay all of the time.

December 28, 2019: I am grateful for people who embrace me like family. You don’t have to be in the same family to be a family.

December 29, 2019: Quiet time alone to be still.

December 30, 2019: Laughs with my little cousin over veggie flatbread and calamari.

December 31, 2019: Happy to see my oldest niece turn another year younger. Yes, she will forever be a baby to me. Don’t grow up Breezy! LOL

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